"Will rules make my Child rebel?”
Usually Parents ask me this question when we discuss about having rules and discipline in their Child's life; "Will rules make my Child rebel?” My answer to this question is NO Rules are one way to let your Child know you care. Many kids admit that when their parents are ‘strict’, it’s “for their own good.” Most grown up kids appreciate having rules even when they protest your rules and authority. Key to place rules is " Have Rules that Make Sense" It's important to understand which all rules shall be placed and how these shall be placed. Categorize rules in two parts; Firm Rules Flexible Rules FIRM RULES Some rules are firm and not to be changed whether your Child agrees with them or not. These rules are understood by both parents and Child. Use firm rules when: Physical or Emotional Health and Safety is at stake The Family’s Values are at stake FLEXIBLE RULES Some rules are open for discussion and can b